When it comes to approaching women in public, most men end up way off base of what they really should be doing. You have to be aware that approaching a woman out on the street, in a store, or any other public everyday venue is not the same as walking up to a woman in a bar or a nightclub. If you try to walk up to a woman and open a conversation the same way that you would in any of these nightspots, you probably are not going to get very good results at all.
Use The Overkill Principle, From Sports and School. If you have a school test or sports competition coming up, what made you feel relatively comfortable and confident going into the event? Overdoing your preparation with extremely hard practice and training. If you barely practiced, you had a genuine reason to be very nervous–you were NOT ready! The same is true for a speech.
Starbucks is as consistent as they come. They use the same coffee in every store everywhere you go. You get the same cup of coffee almost every time, unless your Barista is entirely incompetent. Those machines are big and expensive for a reason; they’re mostly automated. At home, you can choose whatever variations you want. If you want to try something different every couple of weeks, you’re more than able to, and the difference in cost is negligible because a bag of ground coffee at .99 is still less than you’d spend in a week at Starbucks and it will last you much longer with your single cup brewing method.
Maybe you’ve been talking. emailing. or text-messaging back and forth with your ex boyfriend for a while now. If so, you’ve probably become pretty comfortable. But you know what? Hiding behind a screen or phone is easy to do. Meeting your ex face to face is a lot harder, and you may find yourself at a loss for words. Being comfortable is extremely important, which is why you need to pick the correct place to meet up.
Once upon a time, if you wanted to buy a book, you bought it from a bookstore. Book buying possibilities have changed. Now you can pay to download a book to an e-book reader or buy it from an online source (e.g., the author’s or publisher’s website, Amazon.com). Book buying behaviors have changed, but bookstores seem to be trying to maintain the way they do business. Other than adding a coffee shop, bookstores now look much like I remember them before Amazon.com made online book shopping practical.
As mentioned earlier, if you are terribly busy, you are probably also experiencing a lot of stress. Exercise helps reduce stress, anger and sadness by releasing neurotransmitters called endorphins. This is the exact same way that most antidepressants work, but walking is free and does not require a prescription, which is wonderful if your stress is because you do not have health insurance.
Third, if you enjoy talking or writing look into blogging. While this is not something that will allow everyone to strike it rich there are several bloggers all around the world who make comfortable six figure incomes just from the advertising they receive by blogging! This is an incredible field of money if you are talented and manage to find a hot topic and can write well.